August 27, 2014
Bill Haberman
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What is the hardest thing for a healer?

Well, every healer is an individual. So that could have as many answers as facilitators.

For some it maybe the ability too just be a witness, and let what happens happen. I have discussed this in other articles. As a “healer” is seen in augmented reconnective style healing (ARH), the term healer maybe misleading. Many prefer the term facilitator; I prefer witness right now. However, for lack of vocabulary all these terms may be used.

This vocabulary discussion is not just technical. Once we define something we limit our thinking, or we at least express a limit in our understanding of the object named. Deepak Chopra wrote what limits mortals first and last are labels, names, and definitions.

So what happens when you are named a healer. When someone is not healed, then what are you? Because someone is still sick or injured, you must see yourself as a failure, and your failure brings the patient’s suffering on your shoulder.

Here is what is the hardest thing for me and other care givers, at least the ones who care.

There are many sleepless nights thinking what I could have done or done better.

How do you get past the limits that we place on ourselves by definitions?

The hard part is finding the place before there are labels. The ancient Chinese called this entering into tranquility. The Native Americans called it entering into silence.

To the extent possible do your practice without carrying words around with you. Just be; be the witness. Limits are lifted.

Deepak Chopra gave an interesting exercise related to this. After being totally blind folded have a friend feed you different slices of fruits. (It is important not to know the different fruits that will or may be used.) Without knowing what it is just taste it. You will experience a festival of flavors and textures that you have not before realized were there.

Why? You have entered a place before labels, a place of undistracted knowing, tranquility, silence. This place is without named expectations. The fruit is free of your labels to be what it is. You are the innocent witness.

Surely “innocent witness” is a limiting naming in some ways. But this is a move in the right direction. It is a move toward pure being. (That “pure being” is a liable. And so it goes. Closer and closer to a place before words.)

This nebulous innocence state is the hardest thing for me in metaphysical healing arts.

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About The Author

Dr. Bill in San Antonio, TX, holds six degrees in religious studies including a Ph.D. and a Th.D. He holds several other certificates and certifications. He has been what some call a professional student.

Raised mostly in rural south and south-central Texas, he is equally at ease on the ranch, in the woods, in meditation, or metaphysical pursuits.

He was the author of two books now out of print and several that he has not pushed for publication. He has written numerous articles in pier review journals during his time in traditional ministry.

He was invited to be on the translation committee for a modern Bible translation but declined, for philosophic differences over translation presuppositions.

His studies in comparative religions led him into an in depth study of metaphysics.

He has a knack for noticing overlapping principles in different systems. It occurred to him that when things keep showing up in many religions that these maybe the secret truth past down from our ancient past that are applicable to us today.

As in folk lore Odin hung from the tree upside down and after nine days, came to know the secret runes. Today Dr. Bill strives to look at repeating truths in a different way. He is willing as needed to take the time to see the secrets that are ready to be opened from different directional considerations.

Dr. Bill was a traditional minister for 25 years, filling pulpits two times a week and teaching many classes.

Now he has centered his work on the metaphysical of spirituality.

Dr. Bill looks at the metaphysical and spiritual from a new eclectic perspective. This rare insight has been a boon to him and as he works to help you can be a boon to you


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